By Alice G
Let’s face it, arguments with our significant other are always going to happen even if there are love and respect in the relationship.
Disagreements are always going to be part of our lives regardless of how close we are to someone else, but the way we decide to handle them is going to determine how long it takes for things to cool down.
The best thing you can do when you find yourself in an argument with your man is to respectfully walk away, clear your mind, and take time to think about what to text him in order to mend the situation.
Often, it’s not so much about apologizing as it is about acknowledging your role in the argument. You may both agree to disagree after a fight… this is true in any relationship. It happens no matter how much you love each other.
A carefully thought-out message is often a good way to open the lines of communication when it’s time to reconcile.
It’s always a good start to include one or two of these clear messages:
- that you are sorry about the fight
- that you love him
Today, we are going to give you 15 effective text message ideas that you can use after you’ve had an argument. Keep in mind that the sooner you send the message, the better.
WARNING: Don’t expect what you want to expect after using these texts. Not all respond the same and in a timely manner… all men are different. Lack of response doesn’t mean he’s not impacted or moved.
Here they are….
Hey, I want to apologize for arguing last night when you were trying to explain what happened. I should’ve listened to you.
I want you to know first, that I love you and second, that I’m sorry, and I hate it when we fight. I think we need to talk.
I hate it when we argue because we don’t give each other a chance to finish what we want to say. I’m ready to listen.
I’m sorry about the fight we had. If you think about it, it was unnecessary. Call me when you have a chance and let’s talk.
I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings, I had only wanted to express mine as well. But it’s clear I hurt you, which I didn’t want to do. I’m sorry.
When I thought about what to text you after our fight, I didn’t have any idea what would be enough to make it better. All I can say, sincerely, is that I know we can work this out. Can we meet later?
Fighting is never a good idea, but at least we know where we stand on the matter. Can we try to agree to disagree and move forward?
There are many things that we have said to each other during arguments that have been bad, and I know that neither one of us means those things. I make a promise right now to never let my emotions get in the way of our relationship. I can definitely be a better person and you make me want to be better.
I don’t want us to ever have that kind of fight again. We are better than that and I will never let myself get carried away in the heat of the moment and argue like that. I love you and I know that you love me too.
When I started the argument…
I lost my temper last night, and it led to a fight. I shouldn’t have done that, and I apologize.
I showed you a side of me I’m not particularly proud of. I let my anger get the better of me instead of being rational. I’m sorry.
I know I lost my temper yesterday and I woke up today feeling terrible about the way I reacted. Nothing should ever cause that kind of reaction and I am sorry for that. I love you and I will find better ways to let go of my frustrations and avoid this kind of argument.
I can’t believe we ended up saying so many horrible things to each other when we don’t mean a single word that we said. I know I am responsible for starting that and I apologize. I don’t like feeling like we are angry at each other. I love you and I know that you love me.
I apologize for bursting out when you told me that you needed me to change that aspect of our relationship. I felt attacked, but now I realize you did say this in a way that was polite and I just reacted badly. I hope you can forgive me for not seeing that.
I know I messed up and all I can do at this point is ask for your forgiveness and make sure that it never happens again. I love you and I don’t want anything to ruin our love for each other.
Initiating a well-prepared communication with your partner will help you both grow and mature in a relationship. In this case, choosing the right words and intent plays a vital role. The longer we avoid the aftermath of an argument, the more damage it will do to a relationship. The good news is, there is a better way to making things right.
If you’ve read this far… it’s time to take action.
Are you serious about spicing up your relationship on a deeper level? If yes, you can learn more about the simple (and sneaky) ways to trigger a man’s emotions by using the right words at the right time. These phrases have been PROVEN to intensify his attraction towards you.
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